Hi Guys,
Life is a hard work and it's full time job. Lot of people have confusions what to do and how to do to be what they want to be in their life. And lot more people do not realize what they want to be in their lives. Well, that's the hard thing.
Who you want to be. If you can answer that question, you can start making your way towards it. Let me put some points I have seen for me.
- Identify who you are.
- Prepare your goals to where you want to be
- Love your life, dont make it hard to live
- See the beauty of world and see something good in everything you see.
- Identify your people (friends and enemies)
- Come out of the comfort zone.
These are few things I thought would be important. Today I received a mail about being POSITIVE. I believe sharing that would be a good thing.
Harness your positive power
A negative outlook usually leads to negative experiences, but taking an
optimistic approach to life, and everything it throws your way, can reap
dividends and lead to positive experiences.
Some evidence even suggests that
being positive makes us happier, and happier people generally live longer!
Be in control of yourself
The biggest difference between people is their attitudes. We can be
positive or negative, and this is reflected in our enthusiasm for doing things,
or our response to certain situations. Although you cant necessarily control
the things that happen to you, you can control how you react to them. For
example, if an accident holds you up on your way to work, you are likely to be
late and quite possibly very angry — but getting angry is wasted energy. Have a
coping mechanism or strategy — just accept you are going to be late and deal
with it.
Dwell on the past
What is gone is gone, and how you deal with the aftermath is the most
important thing. There is no point apportioning blame, either on yourself or
others. You have the power to change a situation and move on. It is so easy to
say ‘I should have done things differently with the benefit of hindsight.
However, if bad things have happened, look at tomorrow at exactly what it is a
new day in which good things can happen, if you let them.
Get off to the right start
On waking, take some time to lie there and think about the day ahead and
your feelings about it. Think about your attitude to each aspect of the day and
consider if there is any part that you feel particularly negative about. If so,
think about the best way to deal with the event in this situation, but more
importantly, where possible, think about how you will manage in the future — is
there a way of not putting yourself in this situation again in the future?
Enlist help
If there is any particular task that you really cant face alone, then
enlist some help.There is nothing like getting someone else on board to help
out to make you feel more positive about tackling a job be it at home or at
work.You could even try enlisting the help of your family be a martyr and end
up feeling miserable about your chores and responsibilities.
Be pro-active
If there are things in your day that you are truly going to struggle to
be positive about, try and work out what is it about them that makes you feel
that way. Is there anything you could do that could change your attitude
towards it? If you regularly dread your commute to work, then perhaps you could
consider a different mode of transport. If it is your job that is the problem,
then is it perhaps time to start looking for work elsewhere.
Carry happy memories
If you are ever feeling negative, nothing quite perks you up like a happy
thought. Think of the positive times in your life and when you were at your
happiest. You might be able to prompt your memory and happy feelings by
carrying a cherished item or photograph, or even by listening to a favourite
song with positive associations.
Tomorrow is another day
Aside from famously being the last line in Gone with the Wind, this
truism should be used in your daily approach. However bad your previous day may
have been (and you might be feeling your previous optimism didn't pay off), it
is worth persisting rather than letting yourself turn towards your dark side.
Thinking positively is about making a
commitment to yourself to get the most out of your day. It is about being
enthusiastic, keeping your mind focused on important things and developing
Strategies for dealing with problems. The best advice is to do your best each
day and try not to look back at things that happen to you along the way just
reflect on them in a positive learning way.
Of a person's mood, Abraham Lincoln
once said, 'Most folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to be'.
It's up to you as to how you feel, and how you act. In turn, this will affect
the way in which others react towards you. Remember, if you always do what
you've always done, then you'll always have what you've always had.